...
was the date this picture was taken. Nothing special about the picture, but the
emotions they hold..
We
had been dating for 6 months and were on our way back to Nigeria after a two
week vacation in the UK. Our flight to Nigeria was departing in an
hour. We were unknowingly searching for something to everlastingly tie us
to this moment...and there is was: a picture booth.
'Click'
said the camera ...as my mind raced through the past 14 days. I
remembered the dinner with friends, and time with family.
'Click'
said the camera.....and realized I hope to feel like this
forever.
For
decisions making, I had always trusted my analysis. As an analyst I make
decision based on criteria, evaluations, ranking and a range of models I was
schooled on. The reason for a choice were always based on cost benefit analysis/SWOT
analysis as they provide justification, to that which can be justified. But
this moment was different. What can completely justify the choice of the right partner? Where will I source for information that will tell me the right questions to ask? How do I know what will happen to next, if we decide to take our relationship to the next level?
Just as the camera flashed, I was convinced that
instance, she is the one. I didn't need my analysis....All
thoughts on marriage I penned down in this
article were of no relevance, neither concerns about my age, or
financial instability. Like in a trance, all that mattered was..... that feeling.
That
feeling over time has opened up dimensions within that weren't previously
possible. It enabled the creation of inner stability despite negative
vibrations in my environment. And these are crucial things in life I never knew
existed. If I had followed my model, I might never have realized this level of
self-satisfaction existed.
In hind sight, calculations are effective at handling trivial issues. They
work best when deployed within controlled environments. But as there a few environments in recent times were things remain constant ceteris paribus, something more
concrete is essential. A higher level of reasoning and logic, is required to
provide recommendations with much more certainty than from any analysis. A
conviction with a clearer sense of logic capable of debunking doubts and
concerns that may arise. From this encounter I discovered "it is only in
the mysterious equation of love that any truly logical reason can be found"*.
# I_found_a_reason.
*Source of quote: John Nash from the movie "A Beautiful Mind (2001)"
